先留住他的胃做自己可以控制的事情,比如真心的对他好,同时给自己的付出设一个底线,也就是说如何不要让自己的付出伤害到自己,否则真有那样一天的话,不是你无法面对他,而是无法面对你自己!
对于不可控的事情,不要期望过高,比如说他会不会变心,这不是你可以控制的,而且一个变心的男人也不值得你再对他好为他付出了!
所以一句话,只有自己的内心变得坚强和有力量了才不会总是扮演受害者,才会真正的幸福!因为幸福不是别人看到的,而是你自己感觉到的,不一定有一个别人看似完满的家就算幸福,而是你真正活的自我,周围真正有爱才能称得上是幸福!
最后,我祝天下所有有情人终成眷属,祝每个女人都幸福!
First, to keep his stomach so they can control things, like sincere him well, and also to their pay set a bottom line, that is how not to let their pay to their own hurt, or really like the words of the day, not yours unable to face him, but can not face your own!
Things that are not controllable, do not expect too much, for example, will he change of heart, this is not you can control, and a change of heart of man is not worthy of your good for him and then he paid!
So a word, only his heart to become strong and powerful and we have to not always play the victim, only true happiness! Because happiness is not other people see, but you feel, and do not necessarily have a Even if someone seems perfect family happiness, but you really live self, surrounded by real love can be called happiness!
Finally, I wish the world all the lovers get married, I wish every woman happy!